Hello dating seeker, would you tell me your biggest secret to dating success? Oh... Well... My biggest dating secret is... Well. I don't have any dating secrets. Pardon me dating seeker but I get the feeling that you are being shy about telling me your dating tricks. Let's just say that I am not really into dating or perhaps that i do not look at it in the same way as others might. The thought of meeting someone new, whether it be online or offline puts a little bit of a damper on my evening so to speak. After an hour or so of talking with this person, I usually find myself running towards the hills because they are expecting something from me and I am not sure that I want to be dating just yet. Well dating seeker, this is not really what someone looking for dating advice would like to hear. Let's try again. What about the dating tips you have learned in your short dating history? For dating tips... There are no dating tips when it comes to me because I do not date much these days! But if I did I suppose my main focus would be on protecting myself from getting hurt by simply keeping away from dating websites or dating apps all together. Also using common sense when talking with people who you meet online dating sites is a good idea as well. Don't give out too much information and keep an eye out for any red flags in the making should they pop up at all. I see dating seeker, but you are missing something here. What about your dating profile? Do you have one online dating profile that is managed by a dating agency or do you have one dating website page that has the basic dating information on it? Oh gosh! Dating sites and dating apps are never really my thing so I don't have anything like that... But people tell me I should so I can meet someone special... Well dating seeker, perhaps you are not the best person to be asking for dating advice seeing as how you do not use dating websites or dating apps at all. Perhaps another question might get us somewhere. Let's try an open-ended question instead. What would help make your life easier in dating dating seeker? Ummm... I guess dating advice that you give when you are talking to someone who is dating would help me out. That way when I meet someone special there is not much for them to teach me about dating or dating tips because it has already been covered by you! Oh no, this dating seeker does not need dating advice from me at all . It sounds like they have their head on straight and know exactly what they want from a relationship. Perhaps this person simply had a bad experience with online dating at some point and decided to swear off ever using dating websites or apps again. Or perhaps the right questions were not asked of this person at the right time so as to the information needed for dating success was not obtained. Could dating seeker be dating shy? Or dating scared? Perhaps they just need to take it slow and stay away from dating websites or dating apps at first until they feel 100% comfortable with navigating the waters of dating again. Either way, this dating advice seeker does not need any dating advice from us... But if you do, simply fill out the form below! Note: If you are looking for online dating advice please visit our sister site- Online Dating Wisdom . Thank you *A note about me: My name is Ofunne Amaka, I am 18 years old & I live in California where I attended college & graduated w/ a Bachelor's Degree in Business Administration which has given me an edge over other dating advice seekers because I have work experience in dating. Plus, being an African-American female dating in the USA is a lot different from dating as a black woman from other countries. Because I live in the USA I tend to use dating websites or dating apps usually once or twice a month to keep up with my dating skills. 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