Do you study or work? Do you mean dating Asian girls? You should know that dating Asians is totally different than dating with beautiful women from other countries. If you've had good luck dating college-age Asian girls, dating older Asian girls may pose some unique problems. First, be careful if your girlfriend goes on about her traditional upbringing. Asian women are very family oriented and they take their relationships to parents very seriously. They will tell you up front that dating more than one person at the same time is not acceptable in their culture. If this agreement makes you uncomfortable, don't date an Asian girl! Second, please understand that dating an Asian woman doesn't mean she'll automatically stay home and take care of you and your house and kids (and you know what that means...) These women don't like doormats. Act like a man and expect her to be sweet, soft and feminine? Oh brother! A dating tip: never push or rush an Asian woman into doing something she doesn't want to do. She may well go along with it at first but deep down she'll resent being pushed around. This is so important for white men dating Asians because dating Western women from other cultures is totally different. They may have been told that all white men are authority figures - policemen, bosses, even fathers - who always want to tell them what they should do. So a girl who comes from another culture will feel obliged to be submissive to a white man. But dating an Asian woman from her own culture is totally different because she knows that dating you is a partnership, not a master-servant relationship. Asians are usually more open about dating and sex than Western women. For example, you can ask them if they have dated somebody else before you and expect a clear answer. It's just the way they are - or at least I think this helps build love faster! As long as you treat your Asian girlfriend with respect and affection, dating an Asian girl should be great fun! Here are some tips on dating older Asians: Take it slow...don't rush into things . An older woman will know what she wants from life, so dating an older Asian can be totally different from dating a younger one. She already has her own house, car, even kids! So dating an Asian woman who's not in college doesn't mean dating somebody immature. Be very clear about dating guidelines . If you want to travel together when she is still married or dating someone else, make sure she understands your needs before you go out with her. It's just too bad that many Western men are afraid of commitment and expect their Asian girlfriend to understand that they only want sex , not real love! Don't get too pushy about dating . I know Japanese women who won't date Western men because all they ask for is sex ! The same goes for Asians living in the US - often these women want to meet men but just don't want to date anybody right now. Don't be too dominant . Most dating Asian women are traditional so dating an older woman will be different if you act like the leader of the relationship. As I said earlier, dating Asians is not about being submissive or dominating - it's all about building a good partnership! If you follow these dating tips, dating older Asian girls should be great fun! You'll have the time of your life with these beautiful ladies whether you go out for dinner or travel around Asia. Don't forget that Asians are very curious and they love dating Westerners because we're well traveled and charming! Have fun dating an Asian lady ! # posted by Anonymous : 9:18 PM This dating advice is hardly worth even the paper it's written on. Provided you are dating a woman that lives in Asia then you will not be dating someone who has had an "Western" upbringing - as such things just don't happen there. I'm dating one now and she knows nothing about Western dating practices at all. She has no idea of any Western culture, fashion, art or music whatsoever. While I feel sorry for those men dating women from cultures which they know absolutely nothing about this article is crass and ignorant to say the least with its caricatures of Asian women as some kind of submissive slaves to white guys. Such attitudes keep us apart # posted by Anonymous : 2:04 AM I don't think this dating advice is aimed at dating Asians at all, but women in general. I believe the dating tips are geared towards American dating culture, not Asia's dating culture. There are some errors and things that could be explained better, but overall it's a good article for men interested in dating Western or Western raised Asian women # posted by Anonymous : 8:21 PM PekingDuck- Your dating experience of your own country of origin is apparently so uninteresting to you that you need to disparage others'. It's interesting that your comment goes to great lengths to state that it's "not" also about dating Asians. As such, I guess it is just about women in general after all. As to the dating tips in this article being for dating Asian women in Asia, what's your basis for that? You have declared yourself an expert dating American women so it is only logical you would extend these same expertise to dating Asian women in Asia based on your vast knowledge of dating American women... # posted by Anonymous : 3:38 PM My girlfriend states she has dated Western men before and liked them (she also loves me) I am not her first, but I do treat her like a queen. She treats me like a king, we laugh at each others jokes and we get along great even though we come from very different backgrounds. We were friends before we dated and always got along well. If