Many dating sites are now starting to focus more on physical attraction than anything else. The people who visit dating sites don't care about what you say you like, they want to feel physically attracted to you first and foremost. If ever you were interested in dating someone who met all the requirements for what you're looking, but was not physically attracted to them, would you still date that person? ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ If dating tips were more attractive to me, I would probably be dating more. I used to use dating sites just for friends and dating, but now it seems like the few dating sites that I am on are more likely to be visited by people looking for sex rather than relationships. If dating tips were better, then maybe more people would use dating sites specifically for relationships only. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Well if their mental state is really bad or they have a pretty low self esteem or something similar I think it's not good idea to date them since you may end up with someone who has problems which can lead to unpleasant situations in future. Other thing is that you shouldn't change anything about your looks because there are plenty of other qualities***" Honey, I need to ask you something!" "What?" "If you had a chance to change your looks, would you do it?" "Wha.. Why are you asking me that all of the sudden?" "Just think about it for a second." "I don't know. Maybe I would... But only some things..." "Like what?" "I'd make my boobs bigger." "'Bigger' is actually an understatement. You've always wanted them to be even bigger than your mom's aren't they? And what else?" -pause- "Oh, come on! You can tell me!" "... Fine. I'd also slim down my hips and waist just a little bit***Many of us spend a lot of time and energy on how we look, working out, drinking the right things, making sure we put our best foot forward. But some people go beyond those efforts. There are those who want to change parts (or all) of their bodies as part of an ongoing quest for physical perfection. This phenomenon is known as body dysmorphic disorder, or BDD. It can range from having very subtle concerns about one's looks — such as always feeling that your hair doesn't quite cover your ears — to having a belief that you're grossly disfigured and hideous looking despite evidence that others don't see what you see. Even if you've never had thoughts like this, it may be hard to understand why someone would suffer so much over what seems like such a small thing. But, in fact, BDD is no trivial matter. It's a relatively common mental disorder that can cause severe emotional distress and problems with day-to-day functioning. In addition, an unknown number of people who suffer from it undergo unnecessary surgeries or other drastic procedures to correct what they wrongly perceive as flaws in their appearance. Many of us spend a lot of energy on how we look, working out and making sure we put our best foot forward. But there are those who go beyond these efforts to changes parts (or all) of their bodies as part of an ongoing quest for physical perfection. This phenomenon is known as body dysmorphic disorder, or BDD. It can range from having very subtle concerns about one's looks — such as always feeling that your hair doesn't quite cover your ears — to having a belief that you're grossly disfigured and hideous looking despite evidence that others don't see what you see. Even if you've never had thoughts like this, it may be hard to understand why someone would suffer so much over what seems like such a small thing. But, in fact, BDD is no trivial matter. It's a relatively common mental disorder that can cause severe emotional distress and problems with day-to-day functioning. In addition, an unknown number of people who suffer from it undergo unnecessary surgeries or other drastic procedures to correct what they wrongly perceive as flaws in their appearance. Many of us spend a lot of energy on how we look, working out and making sure we put our best foot forward. But there are those who go beyond these efforts to changes parts (or all) of their bodies as part of an ongoing quest for physical perfection. This phenomenon is known as body dysmorphic disorder, or BDD. It can range from having very subtle concerns about one's looks — such as always feeling that your hair doesn't quite cover your ears — to having a belief that you're grossly disfigured and hideous looking despite evidence that others don't see what you see. Even if you've never had thoughts like this, it may be hard to understand why someone would suffer so much over what seems like such a small thing. But, in fact, BDD is no trivial matter. It's a relatively common mental disorder that can cause severe emotional distress and problems with day-to-day functioning. In addition, an unknown number of people who suffer from it undergo unnecessary surgeries or other drastic procedures to correct what they wrongly perceive as flaws in their appearance.***What would you change about your looks? - This is the dating question most ask. While there are many changes that can be made to improve one's looks, dating experts also recommend not losing sight of what is important in dating. Above all else, dating experts agree that dating is about who you are and not just how you look. A person's appearance will only go so far when it comes to dating. When people think of dating, they often focus on their own physical appearance first before evaluating who they really are. People need to remember that by focusing too much on their appearance or an aspect of their life aside from their own personality will prevent them from finding someone compatible with them for dating purposes. Dating experts believe that dating is all about self-evaluation and knowing what aspects of your life you want to share with someone else. They recommend dating others if their personality meshes well with yours. Rebecca Adams, dating blogger for the website called Your Tango, believes that dating should be focused on who you are as a person rather than what you look like. "It's important to get to know yourself before getting involved in dating because it will help you determine if someone likes the true you or just the facade you create," Adams said. She believes that dating can be stressful but believes it's worth it when people find someone compatible with them. When dating, she recommends taking time away from social media so that